Start with self-forgiveness then forgiveness of others.
Absolute forgiveness brings healing from that which caused
pain and hurt, even though nothing can undo or change
what happened. Keeping the burden of pain within oneself
every day is not healthy, it deteriorates quality of life. True
forgiveness from within the heart, is when there is no need
to speak of, or go on about or talk about such factors
anymore; matters of the past dissipate to become distant
memories that no longer bare emotional attachment. Am I
ready to whole heartedly forgive myself and others, forgiving
from every cell of my being, releasing resentment, shame
and anger, guilt, jealousy? Will I allow my-self, the freedom
forgiveness brings? Forgiveness is powerful and healing.

Intuition is within each of us; it is the sense of innerknowing. Times when we get that gut feel, intuition has activated to bring something to our awareness. Listen to and believe the gut feel of intuition and act upon the idea or message received. Sometimes logic may attempt to override and encourage disregard of Intuition but let innate wisdom override the program of logic. Intuition connects directly to source consciousness; it is divine intervention from the invisible realm. Trust when Intuition comes, it is sent to inform, to make us aware, intuition is truth and loving guidance. When intuitive feelings come, accept that feeling as actual. Learn to trust intuition above all else. Intuition serves me well when I trust it.

Acceptance is one aspect of self-mastery. Whilst guidance is necessary, the task to fix and change people or to find fault in them is not mine. To be controlling over others inhibits their ability to express themselves, to be themselves and to learn things their own way, in their own time. The only thing necessary to control is oneself. Live and let live by accepting self and others, exactly as they are. Affirm to self- I release the need fix and change things outside of myself. I lead by example, sharing love and kindness. I accept that everything is exactly as it is meant to be, I choose acceptance over control. I surrender all expectation of self and others. I learn how to be happy within myself and about myself.

The term ‘creatures of habit’ comes from being structured by habitual routine. Our programming can be so deeply ingrained it makes ‘change’ challenging. When it comes to ‘change’ people tend to focus more on what they must let go of, rather than what is to be gained, by being open to ‘welcoming the new’. Life nudges us to progress; failure to act on the gentle nudges, will bring a more challenging learning lesson. Eventually ‘change’ is inevitable whether it is liked or not. Learn to be comfortable with being uncomfortable, outside of our comfort zone is where we grow. Those who make change and accept change are courageous, those who resist change limit their potential. Change is an opportunity to have greater life experiences.

When aspects of self are aligned, the heart, mind, body and soul, inner strength is almighty. Strength of will and the harnessing of self-discipline is rewarded, making the outcome worth every amount of effort. Strength starts in the mind, controlling thoughts and thinking then is backed by intention, determination, consistency and persistence. True inner strength is non-reaction, its being the observer, its allowing others to “be”, it’s having solutions over blame and excuses. Life has not always been smooth sailing but through inner strength I made it this far. Acknowledge accomplishments achieved through strength of will and discipline, as highly commendable. I have reasons to be proud of where I am in life today.